Handling Differences in Opinion | Finding Common Ground

March 08, 2025 00:22:58
Handling Differences in Opinion | Finding Common Ground
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Handling Differences in Opinion | Finding Common Ground

Mar 08 2025 | 00:22:58

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In this insightful discussion, Host Jaspreet Sidhu and Counsellor Raman Gill explore how differences in opinion impact relationships, workplaces, and society. They discuss effective communication strategies, conflict resolution techniques, and ways to maintain respect even when views clash. Tune in to learn how to navigate disagreements in a healthy and productive way. 

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[00:00:12] Speaker A: From here to there. Joe Marzi, Jerry Marzi problem. Different opinions coexist. Karandi society. [00:00:47] Speaker B: I think those are just about society. Wiring, wiring again. Nervous system thousands of years ago. Wiring so that you can stay alive. Survival same same dependency. Tika otherwise anything like that and we still have to deal with it. But it doesn't work for us today. Ego, Lalo nervous system doesn't matter. With respect. I think as just aam not country to country, but utte Jaque just as humans it's very protective. Ego is very protective. And that's where the differences come from. [00:03:21] Speaker A: Open line segments as adults we should know how to agree to disagree by nature, by needs. [00:04:06] Speaker B: As adults, we have to learn it. As adults agree to disagree. I don't know. But I know in our community, but not just our community generally parent, child relationship, parent authority but not authority. Agree to disagree as he grows or as she grows. Community experience. In both of those there's a sense of safety. Insecurity in some ways. I think 20 years ago is interesting. I would say insecurity, I guess. But it was an insecurity in the sense. Not like fight fight. But you know, argument instead of a debate. I wouldn't say just confidence, but confidence. Exactly. Otherwise, absolutely. In our clinic at least counseling and social media or society. One of the issues of which roll key Hagaya. It's changed. Tolerance, difference. But in the last five, six years, politics, differences. [00:07:40] Speaker A: Divide. [00:07:41] Speaker B: Divide and conquer through fear. We had so many. They've lost so many relationships. [00:08:02] Speaker A: Cancel culture. [00:08:03] Speaker B: Yes, cancel culture. Basically, Jerry and Sanapan awoke Samjare conscious thinkers. Let's say racism. Racism, obviously. Let's say racist comment. Bernal Dipti said it Intention in the sense. So even dialogue and cancel that it happens. Celebrities no, they cloak anyway full on cancel. [00:09:06] Speaker A: So very true. [00:09:12] Speaker B: For whatever reason. And even though I am confident different opinion. I'm not vaccinated. We can have distance per cancel culture. So cancel them. Or sorry, in America or news. It has it everywhere, right? Not as many people will talk about it. Not as many people will talk about it. Then judgment. You're a racist person too. You're a bigot. [00:10:21] Speaker A: Against immigration. [00:10:22] Speaker B: Against immigration, all of that kind of stuff. Maybe he was the right choice. Who knows. Or even because it's accepted by Ajrata Council Call Sardi Vikalla Pakar. Because it's accepted, it's okay. That's the cancel culture and JDI as a community. It's gone. There is no debate. [00:11:13] Speaker A: There is no debate. [00:11:14] Speaker B: That's cancel culture debate. You can be Cancelled for that. And it's just a thought. It's very scary. [00:11:37] Speaker A: Society basically cancel culture. We exist social. Different opinions. [00:11:51] Speaker B: Yes. All because up a threat judgment. For example, even vaccine again. Maybe there was a health concern. Righteous. This is right. That's cancel culture. This is right all the way to countries and social media. [00:12:47] Speaker A: Yes. [00:12:49] Speaker B: So much so uncontrollably. It's a little bit more controllable and I think which is elite, right? Yes. [00:13:09] Speaker A: Different opinions exist. [00:13:32] Speaker B: It's too big. We can. Obviously it's different. [00:13:48] Speaker A: Opinion. Emotional investment. Social media. Society on a bigger level or emotional investment. Trade investment, economic investment. Emotional investment. [00:14:11] Speaker B: Right. Parent to child. As a parent, how to create a safe space As a parent. [00:14:41] Speaker A: Position of power. Position of power. Being a child. [00:15:04] Speaker B: Right. [00:15:12] Speaker A: Opinion. Shai the Sonandevich obstacle boundary. [00:15:16] Speaker B: Yes, right. You're so right. That is huge. And Dar is huge. Daughter's 15. How do we create safe space? Hana opinion Dasare duniya dari vari. I hate it. I hate it. Like so much Judgment. Opinion. What does that mean for her life? So true. Opinions great opportunities. Just as imira peniyan at some point because they feel disrespected. So I would say it's probably the easiest place. Safe space. Create control. As adults. As our adults, we should be able to agree to disagree. As adults we don't have the same control. Protective mechanism. It's a little bit different. [00:18:33] Speaker A: Conscious effort, implications. [00:18:57] Speaker B: Sonla. Yes. [00:18:59] Speaker A: Osabaku fada. [00:19:00] Speaker B: Yeah. Friendship. But I don't feel threatened because I can still have the same opinion. And Mera Gaultini Jamira. I mean Galta say who knows? That's cancel culture. [00:19:31] Speaker A: Yeah, that's cancel culture. [00:19:32] Speaker B: Galt say who knows if you're. I mean, if you're hurting somebody. I would say that's Galt, but it's not hurting anybody in England Arrest. Not today's date. But just generally because of posts on social media. Social media opinion post Karthi Baddha cancel culture. They are actually being incarcerated. That's cancel culture to a bigger level. Basically saying how boring. [00:20:44] Speaker A: If I am able to. But that was. That actually defines what we are talking about right now. [00:20:49] Speaker B: Yeah. I would say for a safer community, let's say. I would say it's okay. No problem. It's okay. [00:22:20] Speaker A: One second. Hook a mana. [00:22:30] Speaker B: Yes, exactly. [00:22:48] Speaker A: Is basically your differing opinions. They will exist and they have to coexist. [00:22:53] Speaker B: Yes, that's it. That's it. [00:22:56] Speaker A: Raban, thank you so much. [00:22:57] Speaker B: You're very welcome.

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